Workshops


I will take every class Shelby Devlin offers. 

- Amanda, The Kink Consultant


Workshops for Lovers & Couples

Navigating the intricacies of romantic relationships can be both enriching and challenging. My group workshops are designed to support relationship growth, offering a unique and valuable opportunity for multiple couples to learn together. By engaging in a collective setting, couples gain insights and perspectives from diverse experiences, fostering empathy, understanding, and shared growth.

The dynamic nature of group workshops encourages active participation, enabling couples to learn from one another's successes and setbacks. Through interactive exercises and discussions, couples acquire practical tools to nurture their relationship, deepen intimacy, and rekindle the spark. Ultimately, these workshops serve as catalysts for fostering healthier, more fulfilling relationships, empowering couples to navigate challenges together with resilience and mutual support.

Scene Development & Exploration

September 26 & 27, 2026

San Francisco, CA

This workshop is for anyone who desires to enrich their BDSM practices personally or professionally, by expanding their skillset of scene development and D/s dynamics.

Learn More

November 2026

San Francisco, CA

Ravishment

Ravishment is a daylong immersive experience designed to transform everyday intimacy into an unforgettable adventure. This workshop delves deep into the dynamics of D/s (Dominance and submission), providing you with the tools to create a more connected and fulfilling relationship.

Learn More

Shelby's approach to teaching BDSM and kink is powerful, sexy, and wickedly intelligent. - Eric *

Shelby exceeded my expectations. BDSM Mastery has been one of the best training courses I have taken yet for coaching. - Julia *

I walked away with a ton of new knowledge I feel I can apply right away. - Tawny *

Shelby is hands-down the best. - Jim *

Shelby's approach to teaching BDSM and kink is powerful, sexy, and wickedly intelligent. - Eric * Shelby exceeded my expectations. BDSM Mastery has been one of the best training courses I have taken yet for coaching. - Julia * I walked away with a ton of new knowledge I feel I can apply right away. - Tawny * Shelby is hands-down the best. - Jim *

Workshops for Sex Educators & Professionals

bdsm expert | bdsm practices

Extended education to better support your clients.

In a rapidly evolving landscape of sexual health and personal development, continuing education remains paramount. These workshops offer a unique opportunity for professionals to explore niche topics such as BDSM, Kink & Fetish, and Problematic Sexual Desires while learning cutting-edge methodologies, therapeutic interventions, and coaching techniques. The practitioner workshops focus on practical applications, equipping participants with new tools and strategies to address unusual client needs and challenges.

Through interactive sessions, case studies, and collaborative discussions, participants explore transformative modalities and protocols that can be seamlessly integrated into their existing practice. La Petite Mort workshops encourage a dynamic exchange of ideas, fostering a supportive environment where professionals can refine their skills, gain fresh perspectives, and invigorate their approach to client care.

Upcoming Workshops

BDSM & Kink Mastery  for Practitioners

March 6 - 8, 2026

 San Francisco, CA

Taught in partnership with the Somatica® Institute, this workshop is crafted for coaches and therapists who want to work with clients around BDSM, kink and fetish.

Learn More

BDSM & Kink Mastery  for Practitioners

April 10 - 12, 2026

 Auckland, New Zealand 

This workshop is crafted for coaches, sexological bodyworkers, and sexual surrogates who want to work with clients around BDSM, kink and fetish.

Coming Soon

Scene Development & Exploration

September 26 & 27, 2026

San Francisco, CA

This workshop is for anyone who desires to enrich their BDSM practices personally or professionally, by expanding their skillset of scene development and D/s dynamics.

Learn More