Sometimes our fantasies and desires turn towards the esoteric. Outside of BDSM, fetish and kink are often viewed as deviant, dirty, or just plain weird. When we have desires that are not celebrated in mainstream media, we often develop shame and fear about these desires. We may try to hide them from our lovers, and in extreme cases, these desires prevent us from pursuing relationships altogether.

Only when we have the opportunity to explore our kinks and fetishes with a supportive partner or community can we come to understand them and integrate them into our sex-lives in ways that are sustainable and fulfilling. Whether single or partnered, I would love to help you understand your kinks and fetishes, in hopes of more fulfilling intimacy.