D/s
The erotic world of Dominance & Submission uniquely captivates our culture. Even those of us who feel more comfortable on the vanilla side of the erotic spectrum are often drawn in by tantalizing aspects of D/s. One way to understand Dominance & submission is by thinking of it as psychological eroticism, a means for us to explore our fantasies and erotic imagination to the fullest extent. The incorporation of role-play, props, and other accouterments of BDSM (bondage, dominance, sadism, masochism) can further enhance our fulfillment of D/s desires. Working together, we will experience Dominance & submission in a safe container, placing emphasis on communication, consent, and pleasure.
Dominance
Being a Dominant is a responsibility, an honor, and of course, a great pleasure. Beyond the intoxicating effects of power, exceptional domination comes down to the power of presence – a Dom’s ability to stay in the present moment so that they can keep their submissive present as well. If you desire to fully claim your inherent power as a leader and to learn how to become a capable Dom for your partner(s), I will guide you into discovering your potential. With every experience we share in session, your confidence will increase, along with your technique, skill mastery, and creativity. Each step of this process is carefully designed to guide you into becoming the sensual and powerful Dom you are meant to be. By the end of our work together, submissives will literally be on their knees, begging for your attention.
“Shelby helped me come to terms with my dominant side, and taught me how to play with it safely and confidently.”
– Shawn, May 2022
Submission
Do you long to take a break from the world around you, and find a temporary escape from the pressures and distractions of your everyday life? Many people in our modern world crave a space to experience pleasure and fulfillment without the burden of being who they are supposed to be or who society demands that they be. There is a realm that submissives call "sub-space." It is a place free from thought, pressure, responsibility, worry, and shame. Sub-space is a timeless place, in which you can fully let go and receive the care and attention that you so deeply crave.
I will take you there, and most importantly, teach you how to find it again and again.
If your desire is to be held in your submission and to fully let go of the world around you, I will create that space for you. Perhaps you just want to satisfy a curiosity about submissiveness before taking a larger plunge. Whatever your needs, together we will discover what you need to fully release yourself into another’s care, and learn what brings you the greatest pleasures as a submissive. Our time together will provide you with an experiential touchstone; a way for you to intuitively know when your needs are being met within a scene. At the end of our journey together, you will have a deep understanding of your needs, as well as the ability to ensure they are met.
“Exploring my submissive side has made me feel more excited about sex than I ever have before. Shelby not only helped me figure out what I really wanted, but she also taught me how to ask my husband for what I want.”
– Madeline, June 2022
